Spending on the Simple Joys

   

My wife and I both work, so we simply don’t have much time in the weeknights to relax because we are preparing dinner, lunch for the following day, cleaning a little here and here etc. on the weekend, we’ll sometimes go out for breakfast. One of my favorite places to go is iHOP! It has a huge breakfast menu and is reasonably priced and since my son knows they have Chocolate Chocolate Chip pancakes (yes two “chocolates” because the batter is made out of chocolate it too), he won’t stop bugging us until we go.

The total bill was in the low $20s for 2 eggs, 3 orders of pancakes (including their fall pumpkin flavor), hash browns, Orange Juice, grilled cheese and fries including tip. It made us all happy because there is something there for everyone and is not crazy expensive like some spots in the city with their fancy bagels and breads, and butters, lol. You’ll find that spending on others will make you happier than spending on yourself. My son was eating his pancake all by himself, and he almost never eats anything by himself and often forgets to chew food because he hates eating. He was happy.

 

Simple and Fun Activities

So the point of all this is to find simple things that will bring you, your family, your friends joy. Examples of these include:

  • Going to get ice cream/frozen yogurt – estimated cost for family of four – less than $20.
  • Visiting a state park, which offer many activities like hiking, boating, swimming, camping, and sports like basketball and volleyball nets. Per Valdosta State University – State Parks , the average fee for national park ranges from the few dollars to $30 per car). I know for the ones I’ve visited in Maryland it was around $5 for the entrance fee. And more and more people are seeing the value in national parks. Triple A’s survey says that “79 percent of Americans say they are as likely (42 percent) or more likely (37 percent) to visit a national park in the next 12 months” (National Parks).
  • Going to a free local park when the weather is nice or on fall days. Some parks have free concerts and have calendars online where you can check events.
  • Going to a farm to pick fresh fruit and see the animals – there is one about 15 minutes from our home that charges $5 entry fee and you pet the animals feed them with the food they provide, go on hay rides, and buy butters and jellies they sell at their shop, which would probably be double at a grocery store.
  • Watching an outdoor movie (my next door town offers free outdoor movies by the lake every Friday evening in the summer). We’ve been a couple of times with our blanket, lawn chairs and packed picnic food (estimated cost for a family of four – $10-$15). It was a great evening with awesome weather!

 

Family Night At Home

A family night at home can definitely be fun if you plan it out and be creative! My wife and I like to get our son involved in helping to make dinner. We’ll tell him the ingredients to grab from the fridge. Then well sit him down on the counter to help put together salads or stir some pasta or rice on the stove. We’ve also made him responsible for setting up the table each night with a fork wrapped in a napkin. Other activities include board games (we highly recommend Sequence or if you have younger kids then Sequence for kids), and old family movie.

What are some of the simple joys you feel good to spend on? Please share with us below.

 

 

 

 

Simple Money Man (SMM)

7 Comments

  1. Great list of activities, SMM.

    One thing I like to do is stay at home and play video games. It allows me to bask in my cozy chair and immerse myself in the developer’s world.

    • I wish I could play more video games. I loved street fighter growing up so I bought it for my PS3 but my wife doesn’t want me to play when my son is around (which he always is) because of the violence. So I’ve only played a couple times since I purchased it months ago.

  2. I love the idea of going to a farm to pick fresh fruit. My guilty pleasure is Netflix when I’m feeling lazy; for $10/month, you get all the TV you can imagine!

    There are so many different ways to spend your downtime without breaking the bank. A lot of parks really do have free activities, concerts, etc. Hiking is typically free, or at least very low cost if you have to pay to get into a park. I also enjoy juts a nice low key walk around the neighborhood on a nice day. Oh, and don’t forget trying out a new fun home cooked meal 😉

    • The list is endless and the more you look the more you’ll find! It’s all about finding what you like/your interests. There’s place very close to our house where we can go pick strawberries for short period in the summer. I am definitely going to take my family there (new 2017 goal).

  3. My wife and I love to play board games. We normally play rotating games of strategy games, cooperatives and card games. But we always have a blast playing them. In recent years we’ve pulled in our families who have at first been reluctant but now love to play with us 🙂

    • Some of these games can get quite competitive, especially in my family :-). There’s yelling and screaming (in a playful) way and the occasional cheating by some people whom always get caught, lol.

  4. Good suggestion for a local farm.

    Even here in the heart of Silicon Valley there is a community farm that includes a farm animal rescue where you can feed and pet horses, goats, etc.

    Inexpensive, the kids love it, and it’s good for their immune system. Win-win-win.

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